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[Thorned_Blue_Rose]

Mega Mind, on 28 January 2013 - 03:56 PM, said:

I'm afraid that not being "tied down" to someone only seems like a positive when you don't want to dedicate your life to the person you're tied to. I did and still would in a heart beat. That doesn't fill me with confidence. That's why i'm considering just cutting everything i have to do with her. Collecting my stuff, deleting her off facebook, getting rid of all her friends off facebook and just starting fresh. But i'm going to try and speak to her first and see if she wants to be proper friends or not. Not spoke to her in nearly a week, so might leave it until an entire week has passed. It will be the first week i haven't communicated with her in any way in nearly 6 years. I know i'm stupid for it, and it's not helping anything, but I still think she'll take me back one day. I just can't decide what the best way to get to that stage is.

Yeah I know...that probably would be best though. It will hurt you yeah, but it most likely will end up hurting you less than keeping all the stuff and people around that constantly reminds you.
We all go through it. Up until I found out he was engaged I hoped he'd want me back...hell even now I kinda hope if they get married she ends up getting tired and leaving and then him want me back...but deep down I know better..I just..wish.....
Life sucks and reality bites..

[Mega Mind]

Thorned_Blue_Rose, on 08 February 2013 - 01:56 AM, said:

Yeah I know...that probably would be best though. It will hurt you yeah, but it most likely will end up hurting you less than keeping all the stuff and people around that constantly reminds you. We all go through it. Up until I found out he was engaged I hoped he'd want me back...hell even now I kinda hope if they get married she ends up getting tired and leaving and then him want me back...but deep down I know better..I just..wish..... Life sucks and reality bites..

I think i've got stronger recently as i've been seeing this other girl i met online, only seen her 3 times but we text every single night too and i really like her. I actually want to see where this goes, but its also a brilliant distraction. I haven't told my ex about her yet and i seriously doubt she's found out. Right now i'm really confused about what i want though, so going to just keep things the way they are until i've decided.

[Thorned_Blue_Rose]

Just keep going and be happy. Doesn't matter if your ex knows or not..it's none of her business anyway what you do...(or who).
But I'm glad things are going well!!! I'm happy for you


ALSO!! Got started on my tattoo! Finish it up next week!!!


Dude...I fucking miss everyone here...wtf lol..

[Mega Mind]

Yeah, i didn't realise it had been a month since i came here. A month goes fast apparently.

How's the tattoo going?

Well she found out about my new girlfriend, shit went down, she spent the night crying and facebook messagng me telling me she still loves me and i was the best thing that ever happened to her etc.. In fact this went on for a couple of days. I told her she needs space and i can't spend all my time talking to her anymore, a month ago this would have been so different, but she decided this and missed the boat to get me back sadly, sadly for both of us probably, but i don't know if i could ever take her back now, she'd have a lot to prove.

Not really sure what i want to happen in the long run, as much as i try to tell myself i don't, i still love her.

[Thorned_Blue_Rose]

Went awesome..it tis beautiful!

That's stupid. Sounds like she is controlling and when she realized she might not be able to drag you around like she wanted, she asked for you back but it was too late and she was trying to make you feel sorry for her. You're better off most likely with who you are with now so try not to be sad about it. It was her doing and she is going to have to live with that. You just need to worry about yourself and do whatever necessary it takes you once again make you happy.

You will always love her some, that's normal. But you won't be in love with her once you find that other girls that can help fix the pain. She may not make it all go away but she can be there when you need her and ya

[sarena]

I need a jooooob.
I've already applied to four places and nothing.
Ugh.