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 May 9 2009, 09:04 AM
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Emo Poseur  Group: Members Posts: 21 Joined: 8-May 09 From: Cambridge Member No.: 17,634  |
Ok my friend has been cutting himself for a few weeks now and he says it feels really good and hes trying to make me start! I dont know if i want to cos lots of people say its bad so what should i do?
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May 9 2009, 09:18 AM
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Well aren't you purty.. Group: Members Posts: 847 Joined: 13-April 09 From: Cold scandinavia :( Member No.: 16,344 |
Just don't cut your self, why do you even concider it!?
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 May 9 2009, 09:25 AM
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Not Emo Group: Moderators Posts: 13,360 Joined: 22-August 07 Member No.: 1,295 |
QUOTE (x__Dead.Inside. @ May 9 2009, 11:04 AM)  what should i do? Get a brain.If your "friend" would tell you it's fun to break all your bones - would you do it? |
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May 9 2009, 09:41 AM
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Advanced Emo Group: Banned Posts: 192 Joined: 18-May 08 From: England Member No.: 4,958 |
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May 9 2009, 10:19 AM
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Emo Poseur Group: Members Posts: 21 Joined: 8-May 09 From: Cambridge Member No.: 17,634 |
Ok thanks guys
I guess cutting might be kind of stupid |
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May 9 2009, 10:22 AM
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Geeky Sheep-Shagger Group: Members Posts: 4,554 Joined: 2-August 07 From: Glasgow, United Kingdom Member No.: 1,216 |
Just a bit stupid...I don't quite get why he is doing it either. Plus if he says he's fun i'd avoid hanging around with him.
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May 9 2009, 01:42 PM
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Emo Poseur Group: Members Posts: 21 Joined: 8-May 09 From: Cambridge Member No.: 17,634 |
He said it feels good
We've been friends since pre school so we're really close |
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May 9 2009, 01:44 PM
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True Emo Group: Members Posts: 344 Joined: 27-April 08 From: Macedonia,Skopje Member No.: 4,496 |
you need to help the dude...not ignore him
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May 9 2009, 01:47 PM
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Geeky Sheep-Shagger Group: Members Posts: 4,554 Joined: 2-August 07 From: Glasgow, United Kingdom Member No.: 1,216 |
He needs to accept help though. Tell him he's being a fool, and that cutting only feels good if you're fucked up. He's either doing it for attention or he's fucked up, either way, he shouldn't be telling you to do it. I've never known anyone who has a problem like that try to pass it on to someone else...not even the attention seekers. That's pretty fucked up what he's doing.
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May 9 2009, 06:24 PM
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Well aren't you purty.. Group: Members Posts: 847 Joined: 13-April 09 From: Cold scandinavia :( Member No.: 16,344 |
If you're are that close, just tell him if he don't quit the cutting, you don't want to hang out with him anymore
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May 9 2009, 07:02 PM
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Emo Poseur Group: Members Posts: 21 Joined: 8-May 09 From: Cambridge Member No.: 17,634 |
Thanks for the advice everyone. I appreciate it.
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May 12 2009, 04:42 AM
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the one who grew wings cause she was so fly. Group: Members Posts: 4,289 Joined: 4-April 08 From: !!! Member No.: 4,020 |
QUOTE (x__Dead.Inside. @ May 9 2009, 02:04 AM) he says it feels really good lolwut? pain feel good? i thought pain was painful? QUOTE (x__Dead.Inside. @ May 9 2009, 02:04 AM) and hes trying to make me start! peer pressure.... xD go get him help. seriously... but since he's just doing for attention.. i say let him suffer.... attentionwhores dont deserve help. |
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May 12 2009, 04:43 AM
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Lesbonic Group: Members Posts: 8,416 Joined: 31-December 07 From: Disneyland Member No.: 2,609 |
We're all guilty of a little attention whoring. Some more than others.
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May 12 2009, 11:27 AM
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Geeky Sheep-Shagger Group: Members Posts: 4,554 Joined: 2-August 07 From: Glasgow, United Kingdom Member No.: 1,216 |
QUOTE (purevolume @ May 12 2009, 05:42 AM) peer pressure.... xD go get him help. seriously... but since he's just doing for attention.. i say let him suffer.... attentionwhores dont deserve help. Quite right. He hasn't got a problem, except the problem of not having enough attention so has to be a bum boy about it. |
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May 12 2009, 09:54 PM
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True Emo Group: Members Posts: 721 Joined: 4-February 09 From: cloquet mn (snowy hell) Member No.: 12,537 |
A real freind wouldn't try and get you to cut!
ignore him. A few of my freinds started to cut...it made me worried. I mean, i have done it..but i wouldn't want someone i cared about doing it... if that makes any sense... lol. |
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May 12 2009, 11:48 PM
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Geeky Sheep-Shagger Group: Members Posts: 4,554 Joined: 2-August 07 From: Glasgow, United Kingdom Member No.: 1,216 |
QUOTE (xxxdangerouslovexxx @ May 12 2009, 10:54 PM) A few of my freinds started to cut...it made me worried. I mean, i have done it..but i wouldn't want someone i cared about doing it... if that makes any sense... lol. It kind of makes sense, but when you were doing it did you not think about how much your self harm was hurting them, and did the hurt they were feeling not hurt you? |
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Jun 2 2009, 06:32 AM
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I am not drunk, nor am I a Klondike bar, ma'am. Group: Members Posts: 2,382 Joined: 1-June 09 From: Canada Member No.: 18,753 |
I have to say, rarely does anyone want to admit to cutting if they truly enjoy it and want to continue cutting, they go to insane lengths to hide it. I say call them an attention whore. People who exploit things like cutting for attention deserve the scars (if they even cut good) and having to explain/lie about the cuts/scars.
Plus, not caring, or calling them out on there "fake" or "poser" cutting will make them feel so un-loved that they will truly experience the pain that people with real problems have. Only once they are in a place where cutting becomes neccesary to carry on do they deserve help. Plus, just like drugs, after a while, cutting doesn't achieve the desired "high" (best word I can think of right now, cut me some slack) and they'll either lose hope completely, or they'll try and go crazier with self harm, that is also a point to intervene. And yes, I realize the OP will probably never see this, as his post was almost a month ago, and he isn't a regular. I wrote this on the off-chance that someone in his situation see his thread, and read my post, and maybe my insight/opinion would help give them a direction to go in. |
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Nov 4 2009, 12:05 AM
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Emo Wannabe Group: Members Posts: 57 Joined: 28-October 09 From: far far away Member No.: 26,192 |
He just wants attention, you don't want people to know, or you might want the help but you afraid to tell them. Belive me only one person knows about me and thats cause they pulled up my jacket sleeve. (note I am not counting the internet with this)
And the fact that he says it's fun proberly just means he's a masakist and will grow up to be one of thouse people who like being whipped and stuff. |
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Nov 4 2009, 06:15 AM
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True Emo Group: Members Posts: 589 Joined: 17-December 08 From: Melbourne, Australia Member No.: 10,223 |
I believe this was resolved awhile back... and, for the record, it's masochism
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