Today, I got dumped by my boyfriend of almost 6 months. He and I have known each other for years, and were good friends before we started going out. Big mistake.
Danny (the prick), and I were over at our friend Casey's house today. Dan acted completely normal with me, perhaps even a little more loving. Then I heard him and casey whisper about something, so i asked what was going on. He said "guy talk". So I looked deep in his eyes and asked him to tell me. He said he wanted to wait to tell me until right before he left, but I got it out of him.
He wanted to break up. His sister had told him that I was cheating on him, and he believed her. Dan's sister has never liked me, but this is a new low. She is going into college, and I'm only 15. Show's how lowly and immature she is :/. So, anyway, he didn't believe me when I begged and pleaded with him not to do this. He said I was being controlling. The only thing I had ever asked of him was a few nights ago to please stop talking to a drunk girl. It bothered me. He told me I was a control freak. When I swore to God, he didn't believe me. He said I was a lier and a cheater.
Oh another thing, he said that I'm being over-emotional, and he's the one with ADHD. He's on fucking medication, and his family is basically psycho.
I should have dumped him a few months back, when he asked for the pic of a naked girl going around our school. I decided to give him a second chance, despite what everyone I know told me. Fuck my emotions. Fuck my generosity.
I'm hurt, confused, and I just want the pain to go away. Sorry for the giant wall of text, I just needed to get this out.
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I Got Dumped... By An Idiot...
Started by BlackRose94, Jul 22 2009 05:22 AM
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Posted 22 July 2009 - 06:59 AM
just cut or something
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Posted 22 July 2009 - 07:14 AM
What a douchebag. You're sooo better off without that tool. But yeah I agree that you should've dumped him before he dumped you. His sister seems like she doesn't have anything better to do than to just ruin your relationship. I can tell she's got a dead social life. l00zhar!!!
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Posted 22 July 2009 - 08:49 AM
Why are you antagonizing him? Can you not see successfully slayed the dragon and tiger shark'd you?
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Posted 22 July 2009 - 03:08 PM
mine_26, on Jul 22 2009, 03:14 AM, said:
What a douchebag. You're sooo better off without that tool. But yeah I agree that you should've dumped him before he dumped you. His sister seems like she doesn't have anything better to do than to just ruin your relationship. I can tell she's got a dead social life. l00zhar!!!
Hey thanks, that really helps. You're the only one who genuinely replied.
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Posted 22 July 2009 - 03:27 PM
Talking about this privately would be better. Feel free to drop me a comment/message.
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Posted 22 July 2009 - 09:51 PM
The whole nude pictures thing shouldve been a sign, like big flag. But as Mine_26 said you are better off without him. You sound compassionate and I bet you can do way better than him (and his psychotic family, including his bitch sister). Just dont look back, youll be fine. It's probably easier to talk to a girl about this stuff but if you ever need the guy perspective ill try to be on and if you said me any messages ill reply as soon as I can. Head up 
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Posted 22 July 2009 - 10:49 PM
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